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What if people walked around in real life with their theme music playing, the way it works in TV, movies, and (especially) operas?
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(I'm from Michigan. Although I haven't seen snow in about 25 years, so I'd probably be bartering monogrammed yoga mats for a slice of cauliflower pizza, just like the Seattleites depicted in this here Twitter thread.)

https://twitter.com/DSilvermint/status/1093721980329574409

"I've never witnessed anything quite like Seattle grocery stores when locals are preparing to brave 4-5 inches of snow."
...
"Oh no. They've started looting. People running out of stores with armfuls of Yerba Mate tea."
"Wild packs of Goldendoodles are roaming the streets."
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"I've been afraid to admit I'm originally from Minnesota. I'm too timid to lead the survivors."
...
"Why, just now I witnessed a young man letting several others huddle inside his beard for warmth."

7 Feb 2019 10:32 am
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I've lost touch with some people I used to know, such that whenever their name appears in the sender line of an email, I know the email is a phishing spam. I sometimes feel sad about that. Usually not so much because I've lost touch with them, but that phishing spams are the primary reminder I get of their existence.

6 Feb 2019 03:57 am
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"It may be that your whole purpose in life is simply to serve as a pillow to others."
— something the person I live with said to me, while their head and our cat were both lying on my tummy
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"Nonviolent Communication Is for the Privileged" by Raffi Marhaba

A zillion people posted this link in the last day or two. Most posted it without much comment, which annoyed me, because the headline is really unclear.

So here's a summary of what the essay says:
Marshall Rosenberg's book called Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life is flawed because it overfocuses on similarities among people and doesn't take into account differences in culture, language, education, power and influence. Also it appropriates communication tools that were widely in use before Rosenberg's method (NVC) existed.

"In conclusion, NVC can be a useful tool to resolve interpersonal conflict, to explore what our feelings mean, to take accountability for our actions, to improve ourselves and the way we communicate and it can also be a dangerous and violent tool that allows for people in power to feel good about themselves while benefiting from oppressed people."

5 Feb 2019 10:28 am
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In some alternate universe where time machines were invented, Philip K. Dick retroactively received royalties for all the films made out of his stories.

3 Feb 2019 11:31 am
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Eggs! People who can verbally enumerate a numbered list! Cooking with plumbing supplies! 10 minutes, captioned (properly captioned, not via that YouTube mondegreen generator).

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[personal profile] kate_nepveu has some tips for people coming to DW from G+ here.

This code (swiped from [personal profile] kate_nepveu) adds a plus-one feature to your post:
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I'm posting this because I'm a supporter of the notion of doing what you enjoy even if you're not talented at it and don't have a goal of becoming objectively "good" at it. And I agree that people's art (and other activities) getting graded and ranked from kindergarten on is part of what makes people back away from activities they aren't talented at.

I'm less thrilled by the part of the article that says the reason you should do this is because studies show it's psychologically beneficial or leads to personal growth or Albert Einstein used it to solve problems or being "passive consumers" is morally bankrupt. That's substituting one expert-provided viewpoint for another.

"You Don't Have to Be Good at Art to Benefit from an Artistic Hobby" by Casey Lesser at Artsy
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DREAMWIDTH IS FOR SHITPOSTING: AN EXERCISE IN FEBRUARY by [personal profile] sara

*now proceeding to JFGI "shitposting" because I CERTAINLY DON'T WANT TO GET IT WRONG.*
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Thinking with more nuance about people's responses to trauma. (I hate the headline, which re-over-simplifies what Samah Jabr is talking about.)
"Palestine’s head of mental health services says PTSD is a western concept" by Olivia Goldhill

It's January, so it's once again time for people to blame women and other people who aren't cis men for the systemic sexism that holds them down in the workplace. @AnaMardoll has a thread about it.
https://twitter.com/AnaMardoll/status/1083688401138839553

It's a day ending in a Y, so a woman who wears button-up shirts, fitted slacks, and boat shoes is told that she needs to dress "gender appropriate" to earn a management position. She also apparently needs to change her sexual orientation to work as a bartender.
The ACLU is suing on her behalf.
“Are you telling me that I need to have my breasts hanging out to be successful in your company?” He responded, “Not in those words.”
And on a lighter note, Ryan Starkey of StarkeyComics drew a cartoon, only to have his watermark removed as it turned into a viral meme. I say "on a lighter note" because he found a way to prevent this problem in the future. Sort of.
"The Dinosaur with Hair: How my meme went viral without me"

Finally, an unknown pet store got some free advertising when a cat came in and was captured on camera rolling around in their display of catnip toys.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YudzneyjzM
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1. The adjective "gay" swings wildly from positive to negative to positive
(Original tweet: https://twitter.com/DenpaCodec/status/948397078861955072)
the robot from evangelion
@anildasharez0ne
1998: the teens are calling everything gay
2008: the teens aren't sure they should be really calling things gay
2018: the teens are calling everything gay again, but in a positive way this time

firecat notes that it seems to be working its way back to its 1200s-1300s meaning, "Bright or lively-looking, esp. in colour; brilliant, showy" and its 1400s-and-later meaning, "light-hearted, carefree; manifesting, characterized by, or disposed to joy and mirth; exuberantly cheerful, merry; sportive." (http://www.oed.com/view/Entry/77207 — login required, unfortunately)


2. A certain expletive gains acceptability in new contexts.
nsfw word herein )
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"Why Is It Still Controversial to Call Trump a Racist?" by Ryan Bort in Rolling Stone
But for all of her talk about tax rates, universal healthcare and a Green New Deal to combat climate change, Ocasio-Cortez has mostly abstained from taking on the president directly. When Cooper asked her why, she explained that she treats Trump as more of a “symptom of a problem.” Part of this problem, she went on, is racism in America.
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2018 books (recommended, unfinished)

Let me know if you want me to say more about any of these.

Alma Alexander, Abducticon; Empress



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2018 Audiobooks (recommended, unfinished)

Let me know if you want me to say more about any of these.
  • Douglas Adams, Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency (Dirk Gently #1)
    • Second or third time I've tried with this series; it didn't hold my interest.
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I recommend this essay, and to tempt you I've swiped a bunch of quotes from it, both from Russell's essay and Maria Popova's surrounding text.

The only thing I have a problem with is that I suspect Mr Russell, in claiming that we can set things up so that no one has to work more than 4 hours a day, wasn't thinking about some of the kinds of work women are more likely to do, like childcare.

In Praise of Idleness: Bertrand Russell on the Relationship Between Leisure and Social Justice by Maria Popova
Leisure is not the same as the absence of activity… or even as an inner quiet. It is rather like the stillness in the conversation of lovers, which is fed by their oneness.” -- German philosopher Josef Pieper, "Leisure, the Basis of Culture"

Modern technique has made it possible for leisure, within limits, to be not the prerogative of small privileged classes, but a right evenly distributed throughout the community. The morality of work is the morality of slaves, and the modern world has no need of slavery. -- Bertrand Russell

The idea that the poor should have leisure has always been shocking to the rich. -- Bertrand Russell

I remember hearing an old Duchess say: “What do the poor want with holidays? They ought to work.” People nowadays are less frank, but the sentiment persists, and is the source of much of our economic confusion. -- Bertrand Russell

[Russell] considers the radical shift that would take place if we were to stop regarding the virtue of work as an end in itself and begin seeing it as a means to a state of being in which work is no longer needed. -- Maria Popova

The modern man thinks that everything ought to be done for the sake of something else, and never for its own sake. -- Bertrand Russell

The seedbed of this soul-shriveling belief is the notion — a driving force of consumerism — that the only worthwhile activities are those that bring material profit. -- Maria Popova

In a world where no one is compelled to work more than four hours a day, every person possessed of scientific curiosity will be able to indulge it, and every painter will be able to paint without starving, however excellent his pictures may be. Young writers will not be obliged to draw attention to themselves by sensational potboilers, with a view to acquiring the economic independence needed for monumental works, for which, when the time at last comes, they will have lost the taste and the capacity. -- Bertrand Russell
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I haven't been diagnosed with attention deficit anything, but I can really relate to a bunch of things Captain Awkward says in this twitter thread. Starting with "Putting a task on the [to do] list can 'solve' its urgency & I forget," moving on to "I...internalized a fallacy that I was not 'allowed' to do rewarding ambitious enjoyable things until all my 'chores' were done" to "hi to the people who really need an assistant but have no idea how to delegate things to an assistant and/or find the whole assistant thing terrifying."

https://twitter.com/CAwkward/status/1077726114376806400

PS: Also if I try to look at any of the suggested task management systems, I will get sucked into a task of "looking at, but never actually using, task management systems." Or I will decide I need to use ten of them.
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"100 SF/F Books You Should Consider Reading in the New Year" by James Davis Nicoll, who writes:
"I apply two filtering rules to my sundry lists: 1) Only one work per author per list. 2) Any given work by a particular author can appear on only one list. A given author may, however, have works on various lists."

This list is brilliant not only for the recommendations chosen but also for the commentary.

Books I've readare italicized. Books I hated are crossed out. Books I especially recommend are bolded.

If you recommend any of these, or if you want me to comment on any of the ones I read, let me know!

The Goblin Emperor by Katherine Addison (2014)
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"When You're 'Too Functional' to Have Your Mental Illness Taken Seriously"
by Karen Lowinger. This is a brief article, but it sent me on a bunch of ruminations about my life before I formally sought treatment for my mental disorders and how I and others viewed my functionality. Never mind other people taking me seriously; even I bought into the myth that because I was able to outwardly function as an adult, I didn't have anything I needed treatment for.

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