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firecat (attention machine in need of calibration) ([personal profile] firecat) wrote2001-02-21 04:45 pm

posted to alt.polyamory

I find it really hard to tell when a sign of trouble is going to turn into a relationship destroying force. I sometimes stay in the relationship longer than I should, or don't call the sign-of-trouble for what it is because I'm afraid of the fallout.