Can't say about that really. I don't get non-handwringing attraction that often. I certainly would love to have a romantic experience where I wasn't second-guessing myself, foot dragging or telling myself "You eeeedeeyot". I guess it would take someone who made me say "I might get hurt, I might be wrong, but it looks good from here, and even if it ends badly, I am making my mind up not to regret this."