*nod*nod*. nothing to add because tired. but definitely: I think the pressure to rank everything is a really unhelpful feature of my culture.

also about not joining movements where i might in one way be a natural fit, but where i feel people don't understand me at all (and throw their energy into things that i don't find particularly compelling because they don't understand my experience).

i've not liked that slogan since i first heard it because as a transgendered person i know it's just not true.