Okay, when I'm not being PAID TO DO SO, if I'm being commanded to smile and be friendly, I probably won't.

I'm also self-employed and a popular instructor in a small town, so unfortunately, when I walk out my front door, I'm sort of on stage. I dislike that I can't go to the damn grocery store without feeling like I have to be "on", but I haven't found a solution that doesn't interfere with the bottom line on that one.