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firecat (attention machine in need of calibration) ([personal profile] firecat) wrote2002-05-19 12:07 pm

community

What is a community?
How can you tell if you belong to a community?
Are there different ways of belonging to a community?
What communities do you belong to?
Why?

Re: expressing my inner two year old

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2002-05-19 02:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Ask your mother. (He said, with a grin.)

why does it seem to you that a person stays part of a community even if s/he doesn't interact within the community itself but only with other people who do? (referencing your "lurking and occasionally sending an email" role)

I don't think you have to be a politician to be politically active. Likewise, I don't see a need to post in a newsgroup to interact with people who you met there and share common interests with.

The reason *I* consider myself part of that community comes down to the fact I care about some of those folks (present company included), and I would make some effort to visit with them if I happened to be in the same location. We have a common interest which provides a basis for friendship. (OTOH, there are some regular posters I wouldn't drive across town to visit, and in fact I don't.)

In a more general sense, I think that a lot of people who are members of various communities only interact with portions of the community at a time. I'm willing to bet that Al Gore has only met 1% of all registered Democrats in the US, but nobody questions his membership in the Democratic party. People who are not "public persons" might reasonably interact with a smaller percentage of a large community, and still consider themselves members.

I'd like to add to my original statement above, and point out that in fact I'm a member of the community of all US Marines, not just the retired ones, and that gives me a strong connection to all others who claim the title.

Re: expressing my inner two year old

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2002-05-20 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
do you automatically feel there is still a community connecting you with such people? Or does the community become irrelevant at some point and the people become friends?

A bit of both. I feel a community connection with those people who know me from most of the communities I claimed. The exception would be the Marines, but that community is a special case, bound together by a shared purpose and common goals. In the general case of communities, I've always held with the "It's not the place, it's the people." view. If I have friends somewhere, that's what matters to me. In specific, you'd be welcome in my home but jimbat wouldn't be.

Is a political party a community?

A loose one, I think. There's the common interest factor, and common goals. Certainly among the party precinct workers there is a strong bond of shared work and experience.

Is a community just a common name or interest?

It might be. Or it might be much more than that.

You say you have a strong connection to US Marines. What does that connection entail for you and why?

It entails most of my adult life, from ages 18 to 40, when I was an active (or reserve) member of the Corps. Even in military retirement I have to be available for lifelong recall. If you could see what happens when someone who spent some time in the Corps, however long ago, realizes that I'm a retired Master Sergeant and the transformation that takes place as they 'fall in' it is amazing. I feel a strong obligation and responsibility to my fellow Marines, and I know that they feel the same toward me. This is one community that goes far beyond the loose interactions that I see as being the minimum necessary criterion for 'community' to exist in general.

Re: expressing my inner two year old

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2002-05-20 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
is there something about me, beyond my membership in alt.poly, that makes me welcome in your home?

You're someone I like, based on observations over time. I think of you as "good people" as I do the majority of a.p. regulars. But it's not just participation in a.p. that would satisfy my criteria for inviting someone to stop by if they were in town. I need to feel that they're someone I'd like to spend some time visiting with.

I've had a lot of a.p. and a.c. folk visit over the years. But I don't think I could ever bring myself to do something like Starport, because that's just a little too "y'all come" for my preferences.

Re: expressing my inner two year old

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2002-05-21 01:00 pm (UTC)(link)
and I guess the mutual community allows said observations, thus making the connection community-based?

Precisely.

I've had many gatherings of net.folks at my house. Even an occassional Callahans type realspace. But I don't like the idea of inviting people on nothing more than the basis of them inhabiting a newsgroup. The ideal of "friends we just haven't met yet" is not always born out in reality.