What is a community? How can you tell if you belong to a community? Are there different ways of belonging to a community? What communities do you belong to? Why?
do you automatically feel there is still a community connecting you with such people? Or does the community become irrelevant at some point and the people become friends?
A bit of both. I feel a community connection with those people who know me from most of the communities I claimed. The exception would be the Marines, but that community is a special case, bound together by a shared purpose and common goals. In the general case of communities, I've always held with the "It's not the place, it's the people." view. If I have friends somewhere, that's what matters to me. In specific, you'd be welcome in my home but jimbat wouldn't be.
Is a political party a community?
A loose one, I think. There's the common interest factor, and common goals. Certainly among the party precinct workers there is a strong bond of shared work and experience.
Is a community just a common name or interest?
It might be. Or it might be much more than that.
You say you have a strong connection to US Marines. What does that connection entail for you and why?
It entails most of my adult life, from ages 18 to 40, when I was an active (or reserve) member of the Corps. Even in military retirement I have to be available for lifelong recall. If you could see what happens when someone who spent some time in the Corps, however long ago, realizes that I'm a retired Master Sergeant and the transformation that takes place as they 'fall in' it is amazing. I feel a strong obligation and responsibility to my fellow Marines, and I know that they feel the same toward me. This is one community that goes far beyond the loose interactions that I see as being the minimum necessary criterion for 'community' to exist in general.
I feel a community connection with those people who know me from most of the communities I claimed.
How does a "community connection" feel different from some other kind of connection?
In specific, you'd be welcome in my home but jimbat wouldn't be.
Interesting -- is there something about me, beyond my membership in alt.poly, that makes me welcome in your home? or would any member of alt.poly be welcome unless they proved themselves to be a troublemaker like jimbat? (for me it would be the former -- membership in alt.poly would make me more likely to invite someone, but it wouldn't be enough by itself).
Your description of the Marines fits my personal definition of a community pretty well -- I tend to think a community doesn't exist unless there is some sense of commitment among the members to each other's well being; and that a person isn't a member of a community unless some large portion of the community members feel that commitment to that person.
is there something about me, beyond my membership in alt.poly, that makes me welcome in your home?
You're someone I like, based on observations over time. I think of you as "good people" as I do the majority of a.p. regulars. But it's not just participation in a.p. that would satisfy my criteria for inviting someone to stop by if they were in town. I need to feel that they're someone I'd like to spend some time visiting with.
I've had a lot of a.p. and a.c. folk visit over the years. But I don't think I could ever bring myself to do something like Starport, because that's just a little too "y'all come" for my preferences.
and I guess the mutual community allows said observations, thus making the connection community-based?
Precisely.
I've had many gatherings of net.folks at my house. Even an occassional Callahans type realspace. But I don't like the idea of inviting people on nothing more than the basis of them inhabiting a newsgroup. The ideal of "friends we just haven't met yet" is not always born out in reality.
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A bit of both. I feel a community connection with those people who know me from most of the communities I claimed. The exception would be the Marines, but that community is a special case, bound together by a shared purpose and common goals. In the general case of communities, I've always held with the "It's not the place, it's the people." view. If I have friends somewhere, that's what matters to me. In specific, you'd be welcome in my home but jimbat wouldn't be.
Is a political party a community?
A loose one, I think. There's the common interest factor, and common goals. Certainly among the party precinct workers there is a strong bond of shared work and experience.
Is a community just a common name or interest?
It might be. Or it might be much more than that.
You say you have a strong connection to US Marines. What does that connection entail for you and why?
It entails most of my adult life, from ages 18 to 40, when I was an active (or reserve) member of the Corps. Even in military retirement I have to be available for lifelong recall. If you could see what happens when someone who spent some time in the Corps, however long ago, realizes that I'm a retired Master Sergeant and the transformation that takes place as they 'fall in' it is amazing. I feel a strong obligation and responsibility to my fellow Marines, and I know that they feel the same toward me. This is one community that goes far beyond the loose interactions that I see as being the minimum necessary criterion for 'community' to exist in general.
Re: expressing my inner two year old
How does a "community connection" feel different from some other kind of connection?
In specific, you'd be welcome in my home but jimbat wouldn't be.
Interesting -- is there something about me, beyond my membership in alt.poly, that makes me welcome in your home? or would any member of alt.poly be welcome unless they proved themselves to be a troublemaker like jimbat? (for me it would be the former -- membership in alt.poly would make me more likely to invite someone, but it wouldn't be enough by itself).
Your description of the Marines fits my personal definition of a community pretty well -- I tend to think a community doesn't exist unless there is some sense of commitment among the members to each other's well being; and that a person isn't a member of a community unless some large portion of the community members feel that commitment to that person.
But I'm not sure about my personal definition.
Re: expressing my inner two year old
You're someone I like, based on observations over time. I think of you as "good people" as I do the majority of a.p. regulars. But it's not just participation in a.p. that would satisfy my criteria for inviting someone to stop by if they were in town. I need to feel that they're someone I'd like to spend some time visiting with.
I've had a lot of a.p. and a.c. folk visit over the years. But I don't think I could ever bring myself to do something like Starport, because that's just a little too "y'all come" for my preferences.
Re: expressing my inner two year old
(thank you!)
and I guess the mutual community allows said observations, thus making the connection community-based?
But I don't think I could ever bring myself to do something like Starport, because that's just a little too "y'all come" for my preferences.
I've occasionally done open events at my house but generally I agree with you.
Re: expressing my inner two year old
Precisely.
I've had many gatherings of net.folks at my house. Even an occassional Callahans type realspace. But I don't like the idea of inviting people on nothing more than the basis of them inhabiting a newsgroup. The ideal of "friends we just haven't met yet" is not always born out in reality.
Re: expressing my inner two year old