Today was the day to watch Star Trek: the voyage Home by winterfoxdraws (SFW)
Characters/Pairing/Other Subject: Spock
Content Notes/Warnings: N/A
Medium: Digital
Artist Website/Gallery: winterfoxdraws
Why this piece is awesome: Lovely motion in the piece of Spock with the whales
Link: Tumblr
Well I guess I should try to go to the gym tonight after all?
Counseling today was all about trying to make my body feel safer amidst all the mental/emotional stuff going on.
My counselor said some bodies need stillness some bodies need movement. I think mine is the latter.
She also suggested
- getting people to spend time with me
- gentle conversations about not-stressful things
- familiar media
- nice sensory stuff? (scents/textures)
Thinking about this tonight, she suggested I try to remember it all week.
Ozone-depleting CFCs detected in historical measurements—20 years earlier than previously known
Day 2 - Fic - BSC/Sweet Valley High - Claudia/Olivia
Poetry Fishbowl Open!
I'll be soliciting ideas for readers, writers, storytellers, scribes, editors, publishers, students, teachers, caregivers, children, parents, bookworms, nerds, bookstore owners, librarians, an anonymous benefactor, activists, volunteers, superheroes, supervillains, other bookish people, reading, writing, delighting the reader, editing, publishing, bookbinding, shopping for books, telling stories, teaching, inviting students to a lesson, demonstrating tools, educating the whole child, learning, studying, parenting, lending a hand, cooperating, concentrating on a current task, volunteering, supporting people in hard times, respecting people, modeling manners and skills, learning to trust others, observing the environment, engaging all the senses, cultivating a full life, creating intimacy, making friends, getting to know each other, cooking together, choosing your own goals, discovering things, improvising, adapting, cooperating, bartering, sharing, making mistakes, fixing what's broke, changing the world, accomplishing the impossible, other educational activities, books, scrolls, magical tomes, printing presses, pens and pencils, bookstores, libraries, Little Free Libraries, book nooks, windowseats, Montessori schools, other alternative schools, preschools or daycares, Montessori homeschool, prepared environment, colleges and universities, beautiful places, craft centers, community centers, coffeehouses, outdoor classrooms, parks, nature centers, other spaces designed for learning, Triton Teen Centers, mentor circles, intentional communities, clubs, quiet rooms, inclusive workplaces, Thalassia, the Maldives, the Lacuna, the Aqademy of the Qrossroads, Waldorf toys, Montessori materials, intrinsic motivation, child independence, respect for the child, freedom to choose, freedom of time and uninterrupted work periods, absorbent mind, post-traumatic growth, individualized education, three-part cards, language lessons, mathematics, diverse ages and abilities, self-correcting toys and lessons, natural consequences, freedom of movement, intentional neighboring, diversity, inclusivity, emotional closeness, nonsexual intimacies, first contact, rescue, interspecies relationships, trial and error, trust issues, teamwork, found family, complementary strengths and weaknesses, personal growth, and poetic forms in particular.
Currently eligible bingo card(s) for donors wishing to sponsor a square:
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Among my more relevant series for the main theme:
An Army of One involves education and reading in the Lacuna.
Arts and Crafts America focuses on fine arts and practical crafts, sometimes education. Bookbinding would be a logical craft.
The Bear Tunnels has future books in a past culture.
Daughters of the Apocalypse have to rediscover many historic skills for survival, including earlier methods of sharing knowledge.
Frankenstein's Family has two scientists teaching villagers to be thoughtful instead of stupid, and after a few years, several more people keenly interested in books and education.
Not Quite Kansas started with mishandling a book of spells, and involves trying to learn about a whole new world.
Path of the Paladins includes the Canticle of Thorns and other books.
Peculiar Obligations has Quakers in organized crime. The Religious Society of Friends has been greatly involved in education, including abolitionist and natural science publications.
Polychrome Heroics is largely about people learning things. Threads particularly focused on this include Antimatter and Stalwart Stan, Aquariana, the Big One, Danso and Family, Dr. Infanta, Iron Horses, Officer Pink, Rutledge, and Trichromatic Attachments.
Quixotic Ideas is set in a world with plenty of magic and a positive tone, where people often help each other and solve challenges peacefully. It includes a healthy magical school.
Schrodinger's Heroes save the world from alternate dimensions, and they learn a lot along the way.
Or you can ask for something new.
Linkbacks reveal a verse of any open linkback poem.
( New to the fishbowl? Read all about it! )
Day 3 - Fic - Suikoden - Mother Figure - Lucia, Luce and Jimba
Fandom: Suikoden III
Character(s): Lucia, Luce, & Jimba
Rating: G
Summary: Lucia introduces Luce to Jimba.
( Luce had been sad of late. )
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I was turned down for a raise — now what?
A reader writes:
I work at a fairly large nonprofit (500+ employees) outside a major city. I’ve been here four years and genuinely like my job, but my compensation has become a major source of stress. I hold a director-level title, supervise 15 part time employees, and earn just enough to qualify as exempt from earning overtime pay. Since starting, I’ve taken on significant additional responsibilities. I regularly work 45-60 hours each week and am expected to be on call for emergencies for eight hours every other weekend. I know nonprofit salaries aren’t high, but I didn’t expect to be 10 years into my career and still living paycheck to paycheck.
Recently, I had my annual evaluation and decided to ask for a raise. We get small merit increases each year, but they barely keep up with inflation. I prepared a list of accomplishments and additional duties and researched comparable salaries, mostly government-funded roles with public data. Based on what I found, I’m earning $10,000–15,000 below market.
My performance review was glowing. My manager even listed many of my accomplishments before I mentioned them. But toward the end, she said it seemed like I had too much on my plate and wanted to discuss reallocating tasks. To my surprise, I burst into tears. I still managed to explain why I felt I deserved a raise at the end of our conversation, but I know I didn’t present my case as clearly as I’d hoped.
My manager took the request to our department head. Yesterday I was told my compensation was “deemed to be sufficient.” I’m shocked and hurt. I didn’t expect them to match the salaries I found, but I did expect something. The reasons I was given had nothing to do with my performance. First, the usual “no wiggle room in the budget.” Second, they said my salary research wasn’t relevant because the positions I found were closer to the city and might not have comparable benefits, even though the cost of living there is similar and there are no other jobs in our town like mine to compare to. Third, they said there’s no clear evidence I’ve taken on additional responsibilities because there’s no job description on file.
To my manager’s credit, she immediately started working on the job description issue. The person who hired me retired a year after I started, and her files are a mess. Her replacement, my current boss, has never been able to find my original job description.
Still, I’m frustrated. My compensation doesn’t match my role, and the reasons for denying a raise had nothing to do with my work. I also wasn’t given any guidance on how to advocate for myself in the future. At the same time, I don’t feel like I have leverage because I don’t intend to leave since my field has an especially terrible job market.
I’m not sure what to do next. Some of the conversations about reducing my workload seem promising, but that doesn’t solve the compensation issue. I’ve thought about refusing overtime since I’m not compensated for it, but I know that could backfire since evening and weekend hours are common in my industry.
Is there anything else I can do, or re my only real choices to accept my current salary or look for another job?
You can read my answer to this letter at New York Magazine today. Head over there to read it.
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Check-In Post - Feb 3rd 2026
Hello to all members, passers-by, curious onlookers, and shy lurkers, and welcome to our regular daily check-in post. Just leave a comment below to let us know how your current projects are progressing, or even if they're not.
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There may also occasionally be questions, but again you don't have to answer them, they're just a way of getting to know each other a bit better.
This Week's Question: What is your favourite thing to make?
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I now declare this Check-In OPEN!
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current stitching
For the second try, I went down a needle size (from 3.5 mm to 3.25 mm needles), and I knitted enough of the body segment to try on the WIP with minimal armholes, 2 cm below joining them. The armholes were good. The rest was still not right, but closer: the yoke area was too snug for a second layer, especially across the semi-raglan line on the upper back. This is meant to go over a T-shirt.
With the third try, heh, I've kept the needle size but cast on for the upper back with a shorter circular cable, 16" = 41 cm instead of 40" = 102 cm. My hands are clumsier with the shorter circ, which has kept the semi-raglan increases a bit looser. :) I've also lengthened the back yoke a bit, which lets me subtract some of the short rows that my second try had added over the shoulders. So far, this version is only an upper back. It's about to start consuming the second try's yarn.
So, like, I've been knitting the same almost two skeins of yarn for the past month, and it's fine. There's also a few cm of hat, mostly brim.
Meanwhile, I'm still browsing for hood patterns. Avely looks interesting as a way of splitting head fit and depth from the shawl-ends.