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Date: 6 Apr 2001 08:09 am (UTC)Well, I certainly don't fall into the closed-minded category. I have a wide variety of people I like to socialize with. As long as a person accepts me for who I am and doesn't try to change me (we can have differing opinions to discuss, the person just has to realize they're about as likely to change me as I am them) and is honest, I tend to like to socialize with them. Variety is the spice of life.
People that are close enough to me to be considered family as well as friends particularly have a wide variety. There me with my very resolutely bisexual and polyamorous lifestyle as well as my good friend Father_rex (so named for his want to take care of everyone) who is Christian, believes homosexuality is wrong and monogomy is the only way to go. While I'm hunting for another permanent job, he's trying to figure out where my close knit group of friends can meet up in the world since he'll be doing missionary work in Ireland.
As for worrying about what my husband thinks of the woman, that doesn't matter to me as long as the two of them are friends. I'm in a wonderful relationship where if I want to find a girlfriend, I am welcome to, but my husband chooses to only be with me. He feels he can only love one person romantically and that person is me. So instead of having to agree on a third, if a woman came along who I had a good friendship with first and wanted to take it to the next level, I'd sit down and talk about it with him. If he was comfortable with it and her, then I'd persue something more.
I think I might be more blessed because of this than some other women are, but that's because my husband is secure with me. He knows I love him and a woman won't threaten that. He also is content with me. Maybe my relationship is just rare in that.
Anyhow, not all guys look at a bisexual woman and immediately think threesome, although they often seem rare. Also, not all men look at a bisexual woman and immmediately assume easy either. Despite what a lot of society tells us, I think that there are a lot more people out there who think like I do. They're just harder to find because rarely do they run around with the same voracity and with the same coverage...