firecat

Your association with father_rex encourages me. An "alternative" person without any Christian friends makes me wary.

As to your being a mixture of the offbeat and the conservative (bi, poly, presumably more willing to explore kinks, but still basically a "good girl"), hey that is *very* cool. My more conventional brother doesn't grok my interest in bi, sexually expressive women or my greater than average wariness about getting involved in a relationship. Sex involving other people is definitely sticking your neck out and the person I am doing it with had better both be a good bet in the character department and generate enough exitement to be worth the bother.

Thoughts on bi women in general:

I know threesomes are rare. Not all bi women are poly, not all bi, poly women are into threesomes, and even given a relationship with a bi, poly woman who thinks a thressome is the neatest thing since the GUI, Threesome 1.0 is hard software to download, install, configure and maintaintain. That is part of that gap between sex involving kleenex and sex involving other people (and schedules, responsibilities, personal issues, non-cooperative emotions, interpersonal politics, energy levels and other interests). I would still probably opt to try it if it came up though. Hey, ya only go around once and if looked at from a tired and wary enough perspective, very little in life would be worth the bother.

One nice thing about bi women in and of themselves and in the singular is the fact that (for some, not all) some of the more annoying parts of "femme" never took root on them. Het women often have to be 40ish and above before that happens. Bi women often have thought about their relationship to gender and are less inclined to get turned off by the fact I don't slavishly follow gender norms/stereotypes.