Have there been periods of your life when you had no satisfying romantic/sexual relationships, or fewer than you wanted to have (if you're poly)?
How many such "dry" periods have you had in your life?
How long did each of them last?
Was anything in particular going on with you at the time that contributed to the circumstance, as far as you can tell? (Possibilities I can think of include being sick, being busy, moving to an uncongenial location, being socially inexperienced, experiencing a breakup, becoming more picky...etc.)
If this period ended, what circumstances contributed to its ending?
I'll say more about why I am asking this in a future entry.
How many such "dry" periods have you had in your life?
How long did each of them last?
Was anything in particular going on with you at the time that contributed to the circumstance, as far as you can tell? (Possibilities I can think of include being sick, being busy, moving to an uncongenial location, being socially inexperienced, experiencing a breakup, becoming more picky...etc.)
If this period ended, what circumstances contributed to its ending?
I'll say more about why I am asking this in a future entry.
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Date: 15 Dec 2002 06:20 pm (UTC)The only "dry" period in my life was the 2-3 years following my first sexual relationship.
I had felt I'd made a mistake being with that person so soon, as well as I didn't find anyone in that time that made me comfortable enough to do things with.
Since then I've done serial monogamy, or been in Poly relationships.