Question

[firecat]

(inspired by a comment I made in jodawi's journal)

When you break up with someone, do you feel stupid?

As in "I should have known this would happen, why did I bother getting involved," or "I should have prevented what led to this breakup"?

(This is not about anything currently happening in my life.)

Comments

[mittelbar.livejournal.com]

I never break up. *That* sometimes makes me feel stupid.

I think if I do feel stupid, other emotions are more louder, so I don't identify it that way. But I suppose if I wasn't hysterical, I might get the droopy stupids instead.

Do you feel like you should be able to anticipate and influence every aspect of a relationship?

[firecat]

Not every aspect, no.