Question

[firecat]

(inspired by a comment I made in jodawi's journal)

When you break up with someone, do you feel stupid?

As in "I should have known this would happen, why did I bother getting involved," or "I should have prevented what led to this breakup"?

(This is not about anything currently happening in my life.)

Comments

danger signs

[the-siobhan.livejournal.com]

Depends.

If I think I made wise choices given what I knew at the time, I don't. I always try to work things out to the best of my ability, and I never regret doing that.

In the case of the last big nasty one, I did and I still do. There were warning signs pasted all the hell over that one in big glowing neon letters that I actively chose to ignore. I don't do that very often and I still can't figure out what the hell was going on in my head.