Question

[firecat]

(inspired by a comment I made in jodawi's journal)

When you break up with someone, do you feel stupid?

As in "I should have known this would happen, why did I bother getting involved," or "I should have prevented what led to this breakup"?

(This is not about anything currently happening in my life.)

Comments

[nolly.livejournal.com]

I wouldn't decribe the feeling as "stupid" but I sometimes feel that way about breakups. Rather, I feel a way that makes me ask/tell myself similar things, but more in a "Maybe next time I'll remember to look out for these issues sooner rather than later" way than an "I'm such an idiot; I know better than that" way.