Question

[firecat]

(inspired by a comment I made in jodawi's journal)

When you break up with someone, do you feel stupid?

As in "I should have known this would happen, why did I bother getting involved," or "I should have prevented what led to this breakup"?

(This is not about anything currently happening in my life.)

Comments

[elynne.livejournal.com]

Well, sure. I don't have a patent on the three-month crush, or anything. ;) I didn't learn the pattern until I got married, and was monogamous for a while. Then, I noticed that most of the time, when I got a crush on somebody, three months later I'd be left wondering what the hell I ever saw in them. The ones where the crush didn't go away after three months were the potential keepers - more there than just a hormonal percolation, you know?