"You can just"
6 Sep 2011 11:56 amAbout providing food for your family when you don't have a lot of money, and the thoughtless advice that people sometimes give if they don't know much about a difficult problem you have, especially if they give the advice using the adverb "just" (with the "it's so simple" connotation).
http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/08/31/you-can-just/
http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/08/31/you-can-just/