Not my experience

[firecat]

http://healthland.time.com/2011/05/05/masculinity-a-delicate-flower/ (emphasis mine)

...manhood is a social status, something a guy earned historically, through brutal tests of physical endurance or other risky demonstrations of toughness that mark the transition from boyhood to manhood. But while that masculinity is hard-won, it can be easily lost.

Once earned, men have to continue proving their worth through manly action....

The phenomenon helps explain why men are so touchy about their masculinity. Women don't have the same problem, of course. Womanhood is largely seen as something innate, immutable: girls become women through puberty; once achieved, womanhood sticks.

This is not my experience. Is it yours?

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[trouble]

In terms of Womanhood, yes, I feel pretty much that it's a Thing That I Am the way I'm tall, but in terms of femininity, wifeliness, being Good Enough, being allowed to occupy space, being pretty enough.... Well, there's a reason why so many of the women I know experience Imposter Syndrome.

:(