blaming the victim
6 May 2013 10:16 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Someone on FB linked to a post from the blog You Need a Budget (YNAB) (which is a software product). The post is called "15 warning signs you're addicted to debt" and it references Debtors Anonymous and Overeaters Anonymous. The post said this:
"Whenever I see an overweight person, I automatically assume they’re seriously in debt. Probably just a case of projection – but probably not far from true."
(I'm not linking to the blog but with that info you can probably find the post.)
My thought on the matter:
In fact the person might be right that fat people are more often in debt simply because fatness is associated with poverty, and if you're poor it's a lot harder to stay out of debt because you don't have the resources to deal with emergencies.
There is another connection between debt and fat: both are assumed to be caused by the behaviors of the individual and are assumed to be the sole responsibility of the individual to fix. But both actually have a lot to do with what the individual was handed in life—in the case of fat, genetics and the pressure to yo-yo diet can contribute; in the case of debt, socioeconomic status, and a society that increasingly preys on poor people and conspires to keep them in debt. (See http://strikedebt.org)
"Whenever I see an overweight person, I automatically assume they’re seriously in debt. Probably just a case of projection – but probably not far from true."
(I'm not linking to the blog but with that info you can probably find the post.)
My thought on the matter:
In fact the person might be right that fat people are more often in debt simply because fatness is associated with poverty, and if you're poor it's a lot harder to stay out of debt because you don't have the resources to deal with emergencies.
There is another connection between debt and fat: both are assumed to be caused by the behaviors of the individual and are assumed to be the sole responsibility of the individual to fix. But both actually have a lot to do with what the individual was handed in life—in the case of fat, genetics and the pressure to yo-yo diet can contribute; in the case of debt, socioeconomic status, and a society that increasingly preys on poor people and conspires to keep them in debt. (See http://strikedebt.org)
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Date: 6 May 2013 05:53 pm (UTC)Not only do I think this is a great post, but I was wanting to put in a comment about Strike Debt until I got to the end.
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Date: 6 May 2013 09:12 pm (UTC)Has Body Impolitic done a post on Strike Debt?
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Date: 6 May 2013 09:55 pm (UTC)Frex, "First, send some angry letters to the reporting agency..." - I think angry letters tend to be less effective. Anger tends to harm the angry person primarily.
Also get annoyed at people who took out ridiculous housing loans while I thought "that's ridiculous, i'll stay a renter" and then want to be bailed out because how could anyone guess that years of talking about a housing bubble would indicate that there was a housing bubble in progress. However, I digress.
Also get annoyed at people not recognizing that much of the outrageous interest deeply in-debt people are likely to pay is going to pay for the losses associated with bankruptcies, where other deeply in-debt people got to escape from the nightmare by shifting it in part to others.
Have vague grandiose visions of replacing for-profit entities of all sorts with for-personal-satisfaction entities (which are much more practical than for-the-good-of-all-humankind entities). There really needs to be a "financially responsible" reporting system that doesn't penalize you for not being in debt or for not knowing that having an unused ancient account is better than not having it.
Plus or minus blah blah.
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Date: 6 May 2013 10:44 pm (UTC)I don't blame most of the people who took out the ridiculous housing loans that were being offered during the bubble, because education about loans is hard to come by. (I was privileged to get it at home, but I don't remember ever being taught about loans in school.) And because those loans were deliberately pushed to people who couldn't afford them and didn't understand them. The fact that people talked about the housing bubble for years doesn't impress me, because it's not a good survival skill to automatically believe everything people talk about a lot. I'm sure you didn't use "people talking about a housing bubble" as your primary criterion for staying a renter. You did your own analysis, because U R SMRT.
There really needs to be a "financially responsible" reporting system that doesn't penalize you for not being in debt or for not knowing that having an unused ancient account is better than not having it.
Yep.
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Date: 7 May 2013 03:37 am (UTC)Guess what? WE COULD NOT GET A FIXED-RATE MORTGAGE. There was literally no lender who would offer us anything but an ARM. The best we could do was one that had a 1% cap (that is, they could not change the rate by more than 1% per year). And they really pushed us to go for one with a 2% cap instead, dangling a lower initial monthly payment.
So y'know, it just chaps my ass to hear people blithely talking about how STUPID all those people must have been to take ARMs. You can't take options that aren't being offered to you! Add in predatory bank lending practices and lack of due diligence on the part of the lenders, and nothing about this mess surprises me one bit.
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Date: 6 May 2013 11:33 pm (UTC)I can't say whether some form of bailout should be given, but changing bankruptcy law to prevent foreclosure when doing so doesn't harm the lender would have been nice. (e.g., if a person owes $150k on a house that won't sell for more than $100k, if the loan is modified to $100k, the bank doesn't lose anything.)
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Date: 6 May 2013 06:00 pm (UTC)It's probably needless to say that people who think they can read your character by your weight infuriate me.
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Date: 6 May 2013 09:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 6 May 2013 06:04 pm (UTC)"Dewd, you're presuming I have no self-discipline. Nothing could be further from the truth. First, I had the self-discipline to learn how to kill with my bare hands. That's takes about five years of study. NOW I am showing self-discipline by NOT KILLING YOU even though I am enraged at your insulting, inaccurate and damaging assumptions."
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Date: 6 May 2013 07:12 pm (UTC)The better question is, in the U.S. today, why does this person think "seriously in debt" is anything like a character flaw? It isn't even a neutral aspect of personality (such as liking movies or preferring blue pens to green), any more than "having been born after 1930" is an aspect of character rather than a statistical likelihood for a randomly selected person walking around an American city in 2013.
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Date: 7 May 2013 01:19 am (UTC)AKA "correlation is not causation" -- in this case, because there's a third factor operating.
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Date: 7 May 2013 04:32 am (UTC)http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2010/08/10/satters-hierarchy-of-food-needs/
And the third factor is not "lack of self-discipline," like the writer seems to believe.
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Date: 7 May 2013 10:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 May 2013 01:59 pm (UTC)Even when we're talking people with comfortable middle class salaries who are in ridiculous debt, though, it's still a societal problem - we've traditionally encouraged the taking on of debt as a way to "contribute" to society and the economy and we encourage a lot of mindless consumerism and "keeping up with the Joneses."
Not really disagreeing with much that you've said except that in some cases, debt is a choice, while I don't think body size generally is.
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Date: 7 May 2013 08:42 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 8 May 2013 06:28 am (UTC)Then I read all youse guys' comments and was like, "Right -- that too."