Notes from the Field

[firecat]

Dan Savage writes:

The true measure of a man's love isn't that he doesn't desire others, PC, but that he doesn't act on his desire for others.

Euuuugh.

Comments

[red-frog.livejournal.com]

He did point out earlier that men will look regardless of the number of girlfriends they have. :)

What always low-level annoys me when the subject came up is the implicit suggestion that women don't look--in this column, in the suggestion that if you don't want a partner who looks then you should date a woman (dog, or blind person). It's not surprising that DS should not be well acquainted with women as part of a sexual relationship, but I tire of feeling tarred with the same brush as those who freak out because their male partner looks.