Notice to any white knights

[firecat]

I am not a helpless chained naked virgin who is going to be eaten by the dragon; I am a sexually mature feline-type-dragon who has chosen to live with the dragon. So trying to save me from the dragon is not the right move.

Comments

Re: Rethinking Randomness

[firecat]

I agree that people get involved with people who have something they lack.

Hendrix's book Getting the Love You Want suggests that one of the purposes of this is to integrate the lacked thing into oneself.

(Usually it isn't lacked so much as repressed.)

In my case, at first I was uncomfortable with the dragon's grouchiness, and then I used him as the "bad cop," and now I am trying to integrate some of it. Because I think I need it in order to create. (Often when I try to create something, I put it aside because it seems too mean or otherwise socially unacceptable.)

Re: Rethinking Randomness

[xp85goblin.livejournal.com]

Balancing "nice guy" and "selfish bastard" has never been an issue with me. As of the present time they coexist rather peacably and recognize that they need each other. However, I view my emotions with the same trust and relaxed sense of ease as I would view the Diablo Canyon nuclear reactor waste pool during a series of aftershocks. But you are right, you need some of his Darkness, you seem to lack it in sufficient amounts.