Maintaining friendships with ex's

[firecat]

I'm afraid I'm not very good at maintaining relationships with former sweeties. In a number of cases I am theoretically willing to, but neither of us puts effort into it. In other cases when the relationship ends I just don't see anything left that is worth maintaining. I feel cold about it, but there it is.

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[lizw.livejournal.com]

Seeble. I don't seem to be doing too well in that direction with the Most Recent Ex, either, and I'm not even in touch with any of my other ex-partners... with the exception of ciphergoth, who did recently become a playpartner again after eight years during which we only talked to each other about twice, due to some very serious disagreements. So I know that anything can change, given enough time, and I'm taking a very long-term view with the MREx. Putting effort in now would actually be counterproductive, I think.

[firecat]

I'm glad that you reconnected with one of your exes and that you're not stressing over the others.

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