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firecatOH and his partner he's been with the longest (a few months longer than me)
broke up today.
He is doing OK but I'm sure he would appreciate condolences, good wishes, etc., from those who aren't busy siding with his ex.
Here's what he posted about it.
Well, as of 2pm PDT, Thu 6 Jun 2002, my 10+ year relationship with RA is over. Much of it was good while it lasted, but we've also had various problems through much of the relationship, and now we're too exhausted. We've been broken up once before, but I'd have to say it's extremely unlikely that we'll try again.I don't think it makes much sense to talk about blame, and to the extent that it does, we've certainly both been at fault.
We're not going to be friends, but we will at least try to be civil -- with our various shared communities, there's no way we can completely avoid each other.
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Date: 6 Jun 2002 11:24 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:34 am (UTC)no blame
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:36 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 6 Jun 2002 11:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 03:43 am (UTC)Thanks
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:25 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 04:51 am (UTC)Thanks
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:28 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 05:24 am (UTC)Thanks
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:31 am (UTC)So your wishes will be put to use, thanks.
Add my good wishes...
Date: 7 Jun 2002 09:19 am (UTC)Re: Add my good wishes...
Date: 7 Jun 2002 09:39 am (UTC)Social circle angst
Date: 7 Jun 2002 11:41 am (UTC)As to condolences etc.... I hope everyone involved finds peace of mind as life goes on. You, RA, OH, me, the whole gang of involved parties.
Re: Social circle angst
Date: 7 Jun 2002 12:07 pm (UTC)Re: Social circle angst
Date: 7 Jun 2002 03:45 pm (UTC)Re: Social circle angst
Date: 7 Jun 2002 03:58 pm (UTC)I'll be curious to read any comments you have about the stuff I stuck up in my LJ.
Re: Social circle angst
Date: 7 Jun 2002 03:47 pm (UTC)Re: Social circle angst
Date: 7 Jun 2002 04:00 pm (UTC)The same site also has fake Dymo labels and such. It is amazing the
crapstuff you can find on the web.Web crap
Date: 8 Jun 2002 09:15 am (UTC)http://www.acme.com/heartmaker/
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Date: 7 Jun 2002 05:29 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:32 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 11:06 am (UTC)Thankyew
Date: 7 Jun 2002 11:36 am (UTC)Re: Saw and sorry
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:35 am (UTC)Thanks
Date: 7 Jun 2002 08:43 am (UTC)Stunned.
Date: 7 Jun 2002 02:30 pm (UTC)Thank you so much for the heads-up, especially with Westercon coming up.
Many hugs to OH and RA for me. I've known them both a long time and value their friendships.
Re: Stunned.
Date: 7 Jun 2002 03:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 7 Jun 2002 06:14 pm (UTC)*hugs* & good thoughts
Thanks!
Date: 7 Jun 2002 06:34 pm (UTC)Good Wishes
Date: 7 Jun 2002 07:46 pm (UTC)I've said this in Usenet, but I'll say it again here: I really sorry to hear that, and I look forward to giving him an in-person hug later in the month.