firecat

I distrust most conversations about who gets to be in [whatever] camp and who doesn't, and what's the "real" way of doing something and what isn't. Mostly I think they cause more harm than good. So I feel uncomfortable with the comments I'm going to make, but I'm going to make them anyway.

http://www.ficklefingeroffat.com/ is a new blog by a person who was a famous spokesperson for fat acceptance. The person is now blogging about her attempts to lose weight. This has caused some controversy at

shapelyprose and among some other fat-acceptance bloggers.

There are various takes on the subject, and I'm not going to list them all here. I'm going to discuss just one of them that came up in a friend's locked post. It was said that size-acceptance is about "live and let live," and suggested that it was hypocritical for size-acceptance advocates to criticize "a personal decision."

My comment was:

Thing is, it's not just "a personal decision" when it's undertaken in a public blog by a famous spokesperson for fat-acceptance.

The person has every right to do what they are doing, but writing a blog about their deliberate weight loss attempts discredits them as a spokesperson for fat-acceptance, in my mind.

therotund put it better here (emphasis mine):

A lot of the comments I have seen, both here and at Shapely Prose, seem to want to define Fat Activism as doing whatever the hell you want to do with your body. But that isn’t Fat Activism. That is body autonomy, which is a component of Fat Activism.

and

Does this mean [people who are dieting] cannot work toward changing social perceptions of fat people? No. But if you are a fat person who is publicly dieting, that is going to inform your message and reinforce the idea that fat people can and should lose weight by just trying hard enough. Does this mean you cannot appreciate and love other fat people? No. But it does send a message of “fat is okay for you but not for me” which kind of undermines the message of acceptance.

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From:

imnotandrei.livejournal.com

Maybe, somewhere in here, there's a decoupling that could be made about "fat" vs. "big", in addition to a decoupling between health and fat.

Specifically in reference to:
'now that i'm like you (fat and with fat-correlated health problems), there's something terribly wrong with me that i must fix.'

IIRC, one of the health problems mentioned was joint and soft-tissue pain in the legs. Which is, I'm afraid, just a *big* person's problem, and the issue of stress on joints is a matter of *mass* above them, whether it's fat, muscle, or people who've elected to sew lead to their bodies. ;)

I understand how it can be disturbing, to hear that from a fat activist; I also know that because of the way I'm built I'm always going to have joint issues (I've got the classic "linebacker gone to potbelly" build, and if I lost fat through exercise it would very likely come back as just more muscle mass) The same is true of a lot of bears I know -- we're fat, but we're also just *big*, and the only solution to the problems of being *big* in those areas is losing mass or being very careful with our knees. (I got lucky -- my sport was soccer, and so I have a lot of musculature built up to support the rest of my weight. I've known some people who had the classic "triangle" build, with fairly thin legs, who had *real* problems with their joints from an early age.)

I've chosen to take the route of "watch where I put my feet and hope I don't slip"; but I'm not sure I'll stay on that route when I reach the "have trouble with my knees bending enough to get me out of chairs comfortably" or the "torn ligaments due to slipping on the stairs" stage.

What we do for our health at any given moment is going to be just such a tradeoff with other things we may want -- and I don't think it's a bad thing to decide, at some point, that it's worth a change to avoid a consequence. One can argue whether the change is the best way to do so, or even whether the consequence is a real one, but the principle remains the same.

From:

firecat

Which is, I'm afraid, just a *big* person's problem

I see what you're saying, and I don't entirely agree with that statement for various reasons. It implies if you're big you will have knee pain. But I think knee pain a combination of genetic luck, muscle strength (as you point out), and how the joints are used.

I know lots of heavy people who don't have knee pain and I know lots of light people who do have it. I agree that being heavy will often contribute if a person is prone to it or has already been injured, but I also know people who've gone from being heavy to being light and their knee pain didn't go away, or got worse.

I also know that knee pain or the risk of future knee pain is frequently given as a reason for big people to get smaller. But I don't usually see it given as a reason for people to avoid athletic activities even if their games of choice involve movements likely to cause knee injury. I think there's something to ponder in that.

The health problem I was thinking of when I wrote the previous post was high blood pressure. In fat people high blood pressure is actually far less dangerous than in thin people, according to some studies.

I don't think it's a bad thing to decide, at some point, that it's worth a change to avoid a consequence.

Not in the abstract. But what change, and whether the change really does what it is purported to do, and whether the consequence really is what it's purported to be, and whether one can really know those things in a society that ties the change in question up with a whole lot of morality issues - those are really big questions here.

From:

cassidyrose.livejournal.com

Ditto on the knee stuff. My family has shitty knees. I have had shitty knees (congenital problems) all my life and significant knee pain since high school (when I weighed all of 130lbs). I was a serious athlete in high school (tennis and swimming) but my knees were so bad that getting up and down stairs was a problem. My knees got better after I quite engaging in sports so heavily. Dance, these past ten years, of course, did not help, and I noticed a signifcant improvement in knee pain when I took a dance hiatus at the end of my pregnancy and a few months post-partum. FWIW, our smallest dancer has the worst knees of any of us and we have had several dancers heavier/bigger than me who could do all sorts of whacky knee stuff that hurts me to even think about.

So, yeah. I have never believed that knee pain is all, or even mostly, or even partially, about one's weight/size.

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jillzilla.livejournal.com

I'm very wary of saying that knee pain is normal for large people, because in my case that belief contributed to a truly serious problem being overlooked for a decade. My severe and worsening knee pain of ten years turned out to be a symptom of celiac disease, and when I stopped eating gluten it got vastly better. Later when I strengthened the muscles around the knees (which was hard; the muscles were extremely weak and I had to find ways of working them without standing on a bent knee), the pain went away to the point that I have gone from being unable to walk up stairs to trotting up and down the long flights of stairs in the London Underground with no pain most days.

Oh, and I'm fat. Incidentally, when I stopped eating gluten I temporarily gained about twenty pounds and then lost it again (without trying either way), and the knee pain lessened while I was gaining. The weight was not the cause of the pain. My immune system attacking my joints in response to gluten was the cause of the pain.

From:

kalmn.livejournal.com

could i ask you to email me and tell me about your knee exercises? i am trying to build up my knee muscles, and am looking for new things to do. kalmn @ lj works fine.

From:

firecat

I'm not

jillzilla but I took a knee health workshop at NAAFA with Cinder Ernst, and it was great. I'm out of town without access to the sheet of exercises she handed out, but her web site says you can contact her here:

Telephone: 415-699-5797
Email: CinderErn@aol.com

http://www.cinderernst.com/index.html

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mjlayman.livejournal.com

I'm fat and I have no cartilege left in my knee. My right knee. Why just that knee? I'm partially paralyzed on the left side so my right side has been doing all the standing up, sitting down, and turning for years. It has nothing to do with my size. (The glucosamine has made a big difference for the pain in my knee -- I can't take NSAIDs.)